K and T Butchers in Astoria is by far the best place. Its on Broadway around 37th Street. You can order in advance and just pick it up days before. You'll get a fresh, never frozen bird. Since my husband is vegetarian, I don't each much meat, generally...but then I decided to only buy meat from K &T.(supermarket meat, color, slime, and packaging freaks me out and I end up empty handed) I head over there about twice a month-really its the best! Plus, you'd be supporting a small, local business with a bunch of fabulous employees. I was trying to compete for a trip with Anthony Bourdain, so I had to make a video, and the guys at K&T gave me a grand tour, answered questions, and were just funny and great.
First you order, then they give you a ticket, you pay the lady in the booth in back, then you give your receipt back to the butcher, who gives you your stuff.